The Art of Saying I'm Sorry and Thank You

For most Americans, it is harder to say, "Thank you" than "I'm sorry." According to a recent poll by International Communications Research, nearly two-thirds of respondents (65%) believe that saying "I'm sorry" is easy, while about the same number (67%) of Americans can remember a time when they were not properly thanked for a favor or act of kindness.

With the word "etiquette" defined as socially accepted behavior, Rebecca Cole, co-host of Discovery Channel's Surprise by Design and author of Flower Power, believes that expressing all kinds of emotions should be easy, especially for those who can't find the words.

"In the 21 st century, with so many different ways to communicate without even using words - email, voicemail, text messaging - it's amazing that people don't routinely acknowledge the kindness of others in one way or another," said Cole. "A simple 'thank you' or 'I'm sorry' can go a long way. Better yet, sending flowers helps you convey any message with added sincerity."

Deciphering the Etiquette Dilemma

According to the Society of American Florists, the national trade association for the floral industry, five of the most common reasons people send flowers are to say thank you, I'm sorry, congratulations, get well and express sympathy. Rose of Sharon Florist recommends the following tips to insure an acceptable, affordable dilemma to resolving age-old problems

Thank You

Ask your florist for an arrangement conveying a casual, handpicked feeling, to say thank you with a very personal touch. In addition to a beautiful statement of thanks, the accompanying note card can say everything that is too hard to say in person. We are experts at conveying emotion; please ask us for assistance with any problem.

I'm Sorry

Flowers are the traditional gift to get out of the doghouse because they easily make the statement, "I was wrong." To apologize with sincerity, ask your florist for a nostalgic arrangement, using a blend of delicate warm and cool lavenders and pinks. We are experts at Doghouse Repairs but a thoughtful phone call after the delivery will insure your success.

Congratulations

A bouquet of bold, contrasting colors is a fun-loving, playful way to say "Congratulations," "Welcome home," or "Great job." You can even get creative with the container. For example, if a friend just got a new job, ask your florist to put the bouquet in a fun pencil holder or something that represents the occasion.

Sympathy

It's never easy comforting someone who has lost a loved one, but flowers can say what is often difficult to ex press in words. Flowers are usually sent to the funeral home to provide warmth and beauty to the service. If a service is not planned, grief experts recommend sending condolences to the bereaved person's home.

Get Well

Choose a serene color scheme of light shades of green, misty blues and other cool hues to provide a moment of calm and let someone who is ill know you're thinking of them. When sending flowers to a hospital, it's helpful to have the name of the hospital, the patient's name and room number ready for your florist. It's also good to know the hospital's flower policy. Your florist will know about the hospitals in your area.

More Floral Savvy

Studies show the power of flowers on our happiness and well-being and that people who give flowers are considered to be thoughtful and sophisticated. Here are some quick tips to help you show your sophisticated side: